"Cheers" - the local (TV) pub where everyone knows your name - still part of European neighborhoods.

But are people in the US still socializing at the local cafe? Also, trauma survivors can have a hard time trusting others & may not have normal relationships.

European cafes are highlighted in a post, “Europe is Healthier than US,” by Chris Arnade Walks the World which compares the ‘health’ of European nations with that of the US. Socializing comfortably together in little cafes and restaurants is still normal in Europe and the author also saw it happening in the US at McDonald’s franchises. Building social community is about feeling comfortable and recognized and welcomed by the staff and other diners.

*Additionally, a comment to my Note about this shared, from a living there perspective, that Europeans have less ultra-processed foods in their diet than is typical in the US.

This post also gets in US media and double standards regarding sexual morals. Trauma survivors and relationship difficulties is also a subtheme and news about Elon Musk is included. Congratulations are in order; another baby was born with him as the father. The baby’s name was not shared, it was not an official announcement.

It’s a…. kitten! Photo by Reba Spike on Unsplash

“If it weren’t for double standards, we’d have no standards at all.”

*Sung to the tune of “If it weren’t for bad luck, we’d have no luck at all.”

Europe is Healthier than US

Building health is another story - banning glyphosate and other negative chemicals may be part of the reason that European communities seem more social and ‘healthier’ than in the US.

In the summer of ~2012, three college age students that I knew went to Europe for the summer. All three came back looking pinker, thinner, more vibrant and cheerful and energized, than when they had left the US. Within just a month or two all three were back to being pale and puffy and heavier looking again. The likely reason is chelation of magnesium by glyphosate, in my professional opinion. The whites of the eyes also lose a ‘sparkle’ which I eventually decided was a visible symptom of low magnesium. Each atom of magnesium can electrically stabilize a surrounding cloud of ~18-64 water molecules - with inner and outer layers of water molecules. Delphinidin is a polyphenol (anthocyanidin) which contains 4 atoms of magnesium, and it has been found to help chronic dry eye conditions. (Post: Sparkle in the eye - magnesium)

The US may also have worse exposure to fluoride and bromide in ratio to not enough iodine to balance it, leaving us on average hypothyroid which can include being apathetic, depressed, tired, and with difficulty thinking. IQ can drop 15 points with iodine deficiency and can improve with supplemental iodine unless the problem was low iron from birth. Newborns could be helped to have more normal IQ if they were recognized as being low in iodine/ low thyroid function and treated with iodine at that time - BUT that is not the standard of care. IF a newborn is recognized as having low thyroid function than they are given synthetic thyroid hormone instead of iodine. All of the glands in the body need iodine but the thyroid gets first pick, so if the thyroid is low, then all the other glands are even lower in iodine.

A large amount of ‘autism’ and ‘gender dysphoria’ (the two issues tend to found together) likely involved having low iodine levels and low thyroid function. “Treating” someone who needs iodine with gender surgeries or puberty blockers is not going to repair their glandular or physical health. “Sexual function,” or sexual health, is not really possible without having adequate iodine. Facts matter. Iodine matters. Lying about iodine is the norm in the US ‘science’ and ‘medicine’ though.

If it weren’t for double standards, we’d have no standards at all.

There is someone not having any infertility issues in the US - Elon Musk is being razzed a bit for ‘keeping it secret’ that he has yet another baby out of wedlock. He is really good in fact at creating unwed mothers and illegitimate children. He had five children with his first wife, and this is baby number 12, baby number three with an executive at Neurolink, which is one of the companies he owns. He told the news that it wasn’t a secret birth, it just would have been “bizarre” to announce it… because it is bizarre to have had a 12th child out of wedlock and a third with an employee of one of his companies?

• Elon Musk confirms 12th child as he and Shivon Zilis welcomed new baby earlier this year, (msn.com)

It used to not be acceptable to have babies with your secretary/company executive and also your girlfriend/s. *Part of the reason there are so many children is he lost a child early with his wife, was devastated per news reports, and then they used ‘test tube’ baby-making and she had triplets and twins (5 kids). Shivon Zilis had twins and now a single baby (3 kids). The news a few years ago had highlighted the first loss and how sad he was, but I hadn’t been aware of the babies that followed. I felt sorry for him and was confused by what seemed to be a lot of attention being paid to me. Why? or Who me? um What?

Just a few years ago, the buzz was that polyamory was a really bad thing and it was suggested, strongly, that Musk really valued monogamy and marriage and interest in me meant I would need to do what he wanted. For some unknown reason he was symbolically using my story (and scandal) to add to some ‘sexy’ image for Tesla advertising. Drive a Tesla, it is sooooo sexy!

But it eventually seemed to be a publicity stunt more than interest in me as an intelligent female with unique skills and knowledge. I didn’t want a ‘baby daddy’, and said I was a grandma already, and I have never been for sale though I had joked about liking the idea. However, I had two legitimate children with my ex-husband and that was enough children for me. Love and companionship are what I value and I was already too old for having more children of my own. It was weird. Media was playing with me and I was confused and triggered by it. No one likes to be lied about. I was looking for a job and was sharing ideas for employee wellness programs at that point, in addition to researching pomegranate growing, harvesting, and processing.

Now polyamory is being promoted to school children as just another way to identify ourselves. What changed? Or is it that society wants children to be promiscuous with many people but wives are the property of their husband?

It also seems like school children are being taught that “negotiating” for what you want is a normal part of “sexual relations”. “If you give me an ice cream cone, then I will do that other thing you want too” …that is selling oneself. Sex ed in schools is getting into far more than the mechanics of biology and the ‘birds and bees’ of how babies are made. See this post, BISH - sex ed for teens - yeesh, for a guidebook that is in use for school age kids and teens. Prostitution is being suggested to be a reasonable choice for youth. (DailyMail) What changed since 2016/2018? Why was being polyamorous so bad of a choice for me to make if it is being promoted to children now as a choice?

I do not think mistakes were made; I do think it was by design. Get everyone talking so much about a topic that it becomes old news, until it is then perceived as ‘not that big of a deal after all’. My mental health got so bad that the deep-net viewing audience got uncomfortable with harassing me more I think, or at least the more decent members of the viewing audience may have. (The video surveillance and livestream of my life is still happening too - the US wastes so much money it is insane. I think it is/was used as another distraction - pay attention to this crazy person’s troubles, and joke and laugh about it online with your buddies, instead of caring about what is happening in the real world.)

Promoting promiscuity really is a big deal though. Traditional moral standards tend to have biological reasons is what I have learned. Promiscuity can greatly increase autoimmune risk for females and their babies, especially in our glyphosate rich/vitamin D depleted nation.

Also, society is more stable with monogamous family relationships as the standard, and that is better for raising children on average. Prior to the “Romantic Poets”, who died young from tuberculosis, marriage infidelities weren’t appreciated but were not something that would break up a marriage typically. Marriage was somewhat a business - this farm/this inn, this is our home and also our business and that means it is our survival, so we will both work to keep it going. Current times, divorce is almost being demanded socially, but it breaks up families and generally leaves females and children worse off financially.

Unprotected children, in poor families with a single working parent, are likely more easily manipulated into a sex trade or more easily stolen/disappeared.

As I spent time reading and writing about polyamory, a male person with ethnic familiarity with cultures that have had polygamy or still do, men with many wives as a standard, told me very strongly, that it just doesn’t work. The richer men take all the wives as status symbols and poorer men/ younger men, don’t get wives and then are more volatile. Polygamy leads to instability and is upsetting for young men. Families and females can have a motivating and soothing effect for healthy testosterone rich young males. I strongly believe that males and females need each other - we can help balance each other’s skills and weaknesses and help each other to raise the next generation to be well-balanced, functioning adults. Without having the social calming influence of a relationship and family to care for, then the energetic young men of a society are more likely to be adrift, bored, volatile, and maybe more prone to recklessness or violence. Female only households may raise children that don’t value males or don’t know how to value male skills.

The ‘immigration’ into Europe was not families looking to become part of a new culture. It turned out to be mostly young men, and sexual assault has become so prevalent that now white women are being shamed about reporting having been raped by a migrant male . . . immigrant men are just going to rape you and that is their right as an immigrant man from a different culture who believes that white females are not much different than a farm animal and we all know that having sex with farm animals is just something that men do…..right? Parents are charged criminally in the UK now for trying to protect their girls. Females may also be involved in recruiting young females to ‘go to a party’. Young girls are hooked on drugs or alcohol and then are made to believe that it is normal for their ‘boyfriend’ to share you with his other friends.

Allegedly, this is a plan by the globalist cult. They want a more controllable mulatto race in the future, or collective-mindset, more biddable Asians, and to do away with more independent white Europeans and Americans. That is a planned genocide. Flatly, no question about it.

Also, alleged news to know, an insider family child survivor has named Elon Musk as having been an insider family child who was abused at the same time that she was. The torture and drugging of children occurs for the families’ kids not just stolen children, but the stolen children are murdered and the insider family children may have been made to watch the murders or may have been made to perform murders of other children, possibly while under the influence of adrenochrome.

Addition - for those wanting more than my hearsay:

• Jessie Czebotar, insider family survivor describes seeing a 12 year old boy ritual in an interview by David Zublick on Bitchute. Elon Musk was present along with other 12 year old boys and older insider elites, the Clintons, some of Jess’s family members, and she was one of the girls present who were there to get the boys into a sexually aroused state. This took place at the Gloria Vanderbilt ‘pool-house’. The boys were being made to bond together as ‘brothers’ with each other, and then later adrenochrome is given to the boys and horrific assault follows on other children who were left tied up to be victims. It was an initiation rite into the ‘Northern Boys Circle’ a group which keeps tabs on each other and there are quotas for success. It is their duty to prod or help each other meet quotas because punishments are a risk for not meeting insider goals. They vow to keep each other’s secrets and to cover up each other’s secrets. Other boys at the 12 year-old ritual included “Nat Rothschild, Gaddafi’s son, Michael Trudeau, …. Stone, and others” (Graphic descriptions)

• *Elon Musk was born in 1971 - this son of Gaddafi was born in 1972: Saif al-Islam Muammar Gaddafi, سيف الإسلام معمر القذافي
  (1972-06-25) 25 June 1972 (age 52) - He ran for president of Libya in 2021. Other things in common with Elon Musk - questions about his college degree: “Critics have charged that Gaddafi plagiarized portions of his doctoral dissertation and pressure was put on the LSE to revoke his degree.^[195] The LSE set up a review process to evaluate the plagiarism charges^[196] in early 2011.^[197][198] In November 2011, the review panel stated that the PhD thesis had been "annotated to show where attribution or references should have been made" and recommended that the PhD itself "should not be revoked".^{[199]” (Wikipedia)}

• Jessie explains about cutting a victim’s face into a mask, alleged to have been done by Hillary R. Clinton in a video taken by her assistant also present but pretending. And she describes underground ritual areas found around the world which are just like the scene in the Indiana Jones movie Temple of Doom - more predictive programming or reveal the method programming. (Bitchute) Creepy, and kind of interesting that “creative genius” in Hollywood is really just leaking of ancient nasty rituals that are still allegedly happening.

It is worth remembering the quote that “Heroes will be supplied”. A traumatized child may become an adult who is controlled from having developed Dissociative Identity Disorder. They may not be able to consciously remember the trauma or that dissociative controls may have been installed in them as a child.

Elon Musk likes to have a companion to sleep with, and he likes her to dye her hair platinum blonde. Employees learned to gauge whether to ask him something based on how blonde his wife or gf was currently - platinum blonde was best. 15 Crazy Rules Elon Musk Forces His Girlfriends To Follow, ~ “If you hope to marry a billionaire, then you will have to go platinum blonde and also never cancel plans with Musk.” False in part, he isn’t marrying anyone lately. Sadly, Grimes did go blonde for him and doesn’t have the skin tone for it. And didn’t get a wedding ring for it either. (Youtube)

I wonder who he is trying to recreate as his platinum blonde companion? Someone with platinum blonde hair from his difficult youth? The other insider family survivor who claims to have been present at a hideous event with him? Or his model mother who had brunette hair but was also blonde at times? *Use the translate feature on your search engine: (cafebiz.vn) I feel sorry for Musk, he was likely to have seen and done horrific things as a child, but that doesn’t mean I trust him.

As a survivor of early childhood trauma, I have noted my own pattern, I tend to become friends with other trauma survivors - we understand each other, it seems, somewhat more than people who had a more peaceful childhood. I have no idea what it might have been like to not be scared as a child of my own parents at times, but they did the best they could at other times.

I have a few short posts about trauma and relationships on my peace-is-happy.org site.

Recognizing trauma reactions in your friends, family, or coworkers may also help along other types of relationships. Trauma history can make people less trusting and maybe more suspicious or paranoid seeming too. Peace is recognizing reactions of trauma survivors. (peace-is-happy.org)

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